This PSA must be signed by both you and your spouse, and notarized. A sample PSA is
included in this package for your reference. However, the sample PSA provided is only
applicable to parties who have no children and have no real property to be divided. If you have
children or property to divide, you must alter the sample PSA to reflect your agreements on those
matters. We suggest you retain an attorney to help you write a PSA that adequately protects your
interests.
Matters regarding the children of the marriage, such as custody, support and/or visitation
may be handled through the Intake Office of the Juvenile and Domestic Relations Court. The
telephone number is 703-792-6210 in Manassas, or 703-792-7350 in Woodbridge. If you have
already resolved these matters in the Juvenile and Domestic Relations Court, you do not need to
address them again in your divorce proceeding, and you may NOT adopt or ratify an order from
these Courts as part of the divorce. It is best for pro se litigants to pursue matters concerning
custody, support, and/or visitation in the Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court. The
Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court is equipped to handle matters for parties without
attorneys, and is normally the more cost-effective option. If matters of custody, visitation, and/or
child support are asked for in the Complaint and ordered in your Final Decree of Divorce
(“FDD”), you will be required to include a number of notices in your FDD which must be
complete and correct. It will also prevent you from seeking to remedy future problems in
Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court without further action in the Circuit Court,
which may be confusing, time consuming, or otherwise difficult.
If you and your spouse have resolved all other issues besides your divorce by agreement,
or if the issues have been resolved by prior Court order (perhaps in the Juvenile and Domestic
Relations Court, as indicated above), your Complaint should state this fact as an allegation.
(There are other examples in the materials below for other situations, like, for instance, prior
resolution if issues relating to the children of the marriage by the Juvenile and Domestic
Relations District Court.)
In addition to stating the grounds and residency requirements, the Complaint must also
include allegations as to the current residence of the parties, the date and place of marriage, a
statement that the parties are age 18 or older, are mentally competent, a statement of the parties’
military status, and the names and ages of your children, if any. If you are a party who changed
your name as a result of marriage and you want your former name or maiden name restored, you
must ask for it in the Complaint and submit a separate order changing your name. DO NOT
include the name-change request in your Final Divorce Decree. Only a person who has changed
his or her name may request this, i.e., a husband filing for divorce cannot ask to change his
wife’s name. For other name changes, or for more information on name changes, please refer to
the Name Change Packages available in the Clerk’s Office.
Finally, your Complaint should include a “Prayer for Relief” – or a section where you
request the relief you are seeking from the Court (i.e. a divorce). The prayer should state not only
that you seek a divorce. The prayer should state that you request a divorce based on a specific
ground, or request a divorce pursuant to a specific section of the Code of Virginia (i.e. Virginia
Code Section 20-91(A)(9)(a)). Furthermore, if you have a PSA and are requesting that