Congratulations, your child has made the
team! Now what?
Accepting a position on a team includes accepting the
decisions of the coaching staff. Decisions regarding team
membership, which students play, and at times who is
removed from the team, are made by the coaching staff in
accordance with rubrics, team rules and guidelines. These
decisions are approved by the school administration and
coaching staff.
As the parent of a student athlete, you have a right to
know what expectations are being placed on your child.
The coach should clearly communicate to parents:
• His/her philosophy of coaching.
• Expectations he/she has for your child as well as all the
team members.
• Locations and times of all practices and contests.
• Team requirements, such as special equipment, off-
season conditioning, etc.
• Procedures that will be followed should your child be
injured during practice or a contest.
• Discipline that results in your child losing the privilege
of participation.
In return, the coach expects the following
communication from parents:
• Concerns be shared directly.
• Notification of any schedule conflicts well in advance.
• Specific concerns related to the coach’s philosophy
and /or expectations.
It is important to understand that there may be times
when things do not go the way you or your child wish.
At these times, discussion with the coach is encouraged.
Appropriate concerns to discuss with the coach include
the mental and/or physical treatment of your child, ways to
help your child improve, and concerns about your child’s
behavior or safety.
Topics that are not appropriate to discuss with the coach
are playing time, team strategy, play calling and other
student athletes.
It is not appropriate to confront a coach before or after
a practice or contest. When situations arise that require
a conference between the coach and the parent, the
following procedure should be followed:
• Call the high school to set up an appointment.
• If the coach cannot be reached, call the Athletics and
Activities Manager. He/she will coordinate the meeting
for you.
If after the conference, you do not feel a satisfactory
resolution was reached, contact the Athletics and
Activities Manager at your child’s school. At this
meeting, the appropriate next step can be determined.
Be a fan, not a fanatic!
In order to provide a pleasant, safe environment for
all spectators and participants, all those attending
interscholastic athletic events are asked to abide by the
Board of Education’s Civility Policy, to refrain from:
• Intimidating or harassing the players, coaches, officials
or fans.
• Using profanity.
• Throwing objects.
• Entering the playing area.
• Loitering in the hallways or on school grounds.
If a spectator of any age is ejected from a contest, he/she
must leave the school property and shall have no contact
with the officials, players, school personnel, or other
spectators. Furthermore, such actions could result in the
issue of a trespass letter, Denial of Access, or a ban from
future athletic events at all schools. Admission is a privilege,
not a license to display rude or offensive behavior.
Parent-Coach COMMUNICATION
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